It’s not uncommon to hear that a relationship suddenly crumbled. It’s not uncommon for a partner to feel blindsided by sudden actions to end a marriage. The reality, though, is that relationships and marriages don’t just crumble. There are ways to tell if your relationship is in danger. And while sometimes we miss the signs, sometimes we simply choose to ignore them.
Problems in relationships don’t just happen in a moment. When small problems happen over a course of time without any correction, the discord leads to a much larger problem that oftentimes feels too monumental to overcome. So before you are faced with a sudden end to your relationship, look for the signs that may mean your relationship is in danger.
Withdrawal of Affection and Appreciation | A Tell Your Relationship is in Danger
When we are in healthy relationships, it’s natural to hug, kiss, talk and share. Our partner is our ally, our friend, and our confidant. We show gratitude to our partner for the little moments in the day and appreciate their worth.
If, however, you or your partner have started to withdrawal from the other, if you no longer exchange a kiss/hug, or if you’ve lost the ability to feel joy or appreciation for your partner, there is a chance your relationship may be in danger.
Silence or Arguments
Arguments in a relationship are often mislabeled as problems. However, conflict in any relationship is to be expected. In a healthy relationship or marriage, a couple learns to communicate and work through their arguments together, building an even stronger relationship.
If your relationship consists of long silences, or if your only communication is in the form of arguing, your relationship may be in danger.
A couple should be able to discuss the little things (picking a restaurant for dinner) and the big things (deciding to have children) with mutual respect. Whether mundane or extraordinary, if you can’t communicate, your relationship isn’t heading in a good direction and needs help.
Balance
While there are ups and downs in every relationship, there needs to be balance. The negatives shouldn’t outweigh the positives. Arguments should have resolutions. There should be an equal distribution of work in the home and with care and attention to children.
When relationships begin to decline, they get off balance. One partner begins doing more while the other’s indifference grows.
Our homes should feel like our haven. And while we sometimes need a respite from our responsibility at home, we shouldn’t dread returning. If you feel apprehension about returning to your home, to your spouse, there is a chance your relationship is in danger.
Marriage Counseling in Washington, PA
Do you feel that the health of your marriage has been in decline? Marriage counseling can help. In our Washington, PA therapy office, we find the areas in your marriage that need work, and problem solve to find solutions. The simple fact is, most couples could greatly benefit from marriage counseling at some point in their relationship.
If you feel your relationship is in danger of ending, or if you have any questions or would like to get to know us a little better, please call (724) 503-6670 or email us at admin@inthenowcounseling.org. You can also reach us on Facebook and Instagram, too.
Thank you for shedding light on an important topic in your blog post. Recognizing signs of trouble in a relationship is crucial for fostering healthy and fulfilling connections.
Your insightful discussion on various indicators, such as constant arguments, lack of trust, and emotional withdrawal, serves as a valuable guide for individuals who may be experiencing difficulties in their relationships. By identifying these warning signs, individuals can take proactive steps to address the issues and seek professional help if needed.
Thank you, Lucy. It’s important for everyone to know that therapy doesn’t have to be a last resort.